As you read every word on this page you will begin to see the astounding ease and power of this work. Although at first glance the proxy process seems quite simple, it actually puts you in a very deep healing state. In fact, I remember when I was learning these repatternings and modalities. It was the only training that I have ever taken where I actually had to lie down on the floor when we did the clearings - their depth and power knocked me out! Clearing Family Patterns is a dynamic proxy group series that is a synthesis of Bert Hellinger's Family Constellations work and Chloe Wordsworth's Resonance Repatterning system. Carin Block, a Certified Resonance Repatterning® Practitioner and Accredited Family Constellation Therapist, synthesized these two powerful healing systems. She teaches this work to a select group of qualified individuals and I was blessed to attend one of these trainings back in 2007.

The Clearing Family Patterns Series Is Based on the Following Time-Proven Principles: We all have strong, unconscious ties to our family system. These bonds are strong and are born out of love. We all have an innate desire to feel included in our family system. Our connection to our family system is unconscious. We will do anything to maintain our sense of belonging, even if it is self-sabotaging and detrimental to our ultimate well-being. The family system to which we belong is that of our biological family. Even if we were adopted and never knew our parents, we still have these strong and invisible ties that bind us to our biological family system. We store information in our unconscious about each member of our family system. This means that people whom you have never met, have no knowledge of, know nothing about, or even whether they ever existed are energetically affecting you, for better or for worse. Your family system also includes people who have interacted significantly with you and your biological ancestors.

Think About How These 4 Principles Are Playing Out in Your Life Right Now: You are energetically tied to your past sexual partners whether it was a long-term committed relationship or a one-night stand. Your past partners can be affecting you and your present-day relationships. Your past partners can also be affecting your children. Your parents' and ancestors' past sexual partners are also tied to your family system. For example, you can be identified with a former husband of a great-great grandmother even if their relationship ended well before she married your great-great grandfather. People whose death, disgrace or misfortune was advantageous to any member of your family may also be impacting you today. For instance in Nazi Germany some people benefited from the confiscated property of the Jews. If the people who received the confiscated property did not honor and appreciate the sacrifice that was made on their behalf, then this creates a great weight and dissonance in their family system. And this dissonance is carried through to the present day. Victims and perpetrators of your ancestors are also included in your family system. For example if your ancestor was at the Battle of Normandy and he killed an "enemy" soldier, then that deceased soldier is included in your family system. If your great-great grandmother's niece was raped, then her perpetrator is included in your family system.

As you continue reading you will be amazed at how The Clearing the Family Patterns proxy group series can untangle the unconscious patterns that are negatively impacting you .

Three More Facts You Need to Know: Each family has its own set of rules called the family conscience. In order to feel at peace you must feel that you belong to your family system. So unconsciously you adhere to your family's rules. The conscience is our perception of what ensures -- and what threatens -- our right to belong. With the help of the family conscience, your unconscious knows exactly how you need to behave in order to fit in. We have more than one family conscience that is unconsciously directing our behavior. We have a family conscience from our mother's side and one from our father's side. We are also unconsciously driven by the conscience of the groups to which we belong. We are a part of the group of the society in which we live, our country, our language, our race, our religion, our profession, etc. As you can imagine these different groups may have conflicting rules and it's impossible to follow them all. No wonder we humans are full of conflict and contradictions! If we break these rules our family conscience tells us that our right to belong is in jeopardy. Many of these rules may not serve us and indeed, they keep us in limitation. So, in order for us to grow, we need to break some of these rules. This inner conflict generates very unpleasant feelings. When you try to move beyond the "acceptable" behavior of these holographically nested consciences, you may feel guilty, ashamed and threatened.

These principles apply to all of the groups to which we belong. When we try to move beyond these unspoken rules we often come up against self-sabotage. Self-sabotage is behavior that is driven by your unconscious and seeks to keep you safe within your groups' rules. Self-sabotage is an unconscious drive to not grow beyond your family's limitations. I have it. You have it. We all have it! Now, let this all sink in for a moment. As you read through this all of this information you may be noticing some uncomfortable feelings coming up, or perhaps your breathing just got shallow. Take a pause and breathe. As you breathe in you are feeling more and more relaxed. As you continue reading, breathe out, let go of your anxiety, and feel safe and supported. By now you are probably wondering how can you possibly identify and transform these hidden blocks and limitations? Don't worry! You don't need to do in-depth genealogical research. The beauty of the Clearing Family Patterns proxy group series is that you can benefit even if you don't have any information about your biological family - including your parents. Now I want your unconscious mind to listen very carefully.... The Clearing Family Patterns proxy group is a unique process that can identify your generational blocks and give you exactly what you need to clear them. And clear them, we will! Let me tell you the story of Liza. On one of my introductory teleconferences for this group I gave a mini-session and did just a small portion of one of the repatternings that you will get in the Clearing Family Patterns proxy group series. Liza is a third generation metaphysician and has studied and experienced many, many transformational modalities.

Here is Liza's story in her own words… "Until yesterday there has always been this little nagging something that would not allow me to be truly clear. Even through all the inner child work and the Family Constellation Therapy and on going forgiveness work, releasing anger, abandonment and the list goes on. I still had this little splinter that would fester and I just couldn't quite get at it. I have felt my heart SING on a few occasions and for the most part I live in total gratitude that fills me to overflowing and yet I was not able to sustain my bliss. I would somehow sabotage myself and have not been able to get to the emotion that needed to be cleared to attain it. I am talking major here. I have had generous sums of money and I have had lack there of, and been able to see that I caused this to be but could not find out where and how until NOW. This same scenario has been played out in my weight. I could loose it only to gain it, again I can be happy with wealth or not and can be at ease with some extra poundage but still I wanted this to not be out picturing and patterning. I believe the KEY was provided in the session. The emotion annoyance with its ancestral heritage had held me back. I had never connected with annoyance, maybe agitation or irritation and some close emotions to annoyance but never annoyance in this way and how it had been passed down until it was released. I actually saw my ancestors dancing with joy as I gave it to them to process. What a great gift! The toxicity of this unresolved issue was held in my solar plexus chakra and I ate over it or didn't eat over it by sheer will, it was also held back in my throat chakra by my grinding teeth at night when I was not aware of it. I awoke with a winged heart at 3AM and could see the sparkles in the air and knew I needed to share this with you. I could go on and on but we will meet. I would like to continue working with you and I will call to set that up. Thank you for your gracious, kind and loving facilitation. In Great Gratitude and Love and Light, Liza Bliss"

Wow! When I spoke to Liza on the phone, she said that she was astounded that this profound healing could happen in a group!

Now take a few more deep breaths, relax and release, and keep reading… Another principle is that the life force flows like a waterfall through the generations with each succeeding generation receiving from the previous one. The family conscience needs every family member to take their appropriate place to ensure that all of the nurturing energy flows uninterrupted. This creates balance in the family system and you feel energized and supported. Your family system must be ordered. When the family system is ordered the parents care for and nurture the children. The children honor and respect their parents. The result is that you fully receive all of the love and support that flows like a waterfall through your family generations.

Top Secret Information: Your family system can get disordered through separation, illness, death or emotional unavailability. Some examples include: a father who travels a lot for work, a mother who suffers from post-partum depression, a child dying before reaching adulthood. These events aren't limited to your immediate generation; they apply to all of the generations that have come before you. When a parent is not in their rightful place the children may compensate by: Being overly responsible or co-dependent Not having strong boundaries Acting as parents to their own siblings Being a partner to their parent (in extreme cases this can manifest as physical or emotional incest) Taking a parenting role with their parents

These patterns get repeated through the generations and manifest in a myriad of dysfunctional ways. Think about the implications of the above principles. With the holographic nature of this work, when you clear your non-coherent patterns in relation to your family system, you are clearing the past and future generations, too. When you make a change to one part of the hologram the whole hologram changes. Notice how your feeling of anxiety in a surprising way is slowly changing to peace the closer you come to registering for The Clearing Family Patterns proxy group series. When you create order in your family system you will feel confident and supported in fulfilling your unique purpose and destiny.